I have recently been asked, “What can I do to prepare myself for sex with a shemale.”
There are several ways you can go about preparing yourself.
1. Enema’s are among the most common response to this question.
2. Use lots of Lube(don’t use any of the desensitizing lubes) they tend to do the same to the penis.
3. Start with your fingers (the massage, finger, stretch method). I’ll go into this method further later.
Let’s start with enema’s: They can be messy, uncomfortable, and done wrong. The best way to do an enema is to be standing up, use warm water, only squeeze enough warm water in to feel like your bloated then sit on the toilet and continue like you are using the bathroom. You should do this even the night before or about an hour before anal sex.
Next, we will explore the issue of lube. It is okay to use a lot of lube. I recommend using lube on the outside of your ass and don’t be afraid to insert some in it as well. This will make it slide in easier if its your first time and as a bonus it wont hurt as much. There will be some pain involved, don’t get me wrong, unless you have done this many times before it will. I recommend not using the desensitizing creams or lubes due to the fact that it will do the same to the man. He will have less feeling in his penis when he puts it in your ass. We all wanna feel what we are doing when having sex thats why we have sex, right? So, please, don’t use the desensitizing lubes. It will not feel natural.
Finally, the last way to prepare your self for anal sex with anyone is: Practice.
This includes using your fingers, toys, and even vegetables. Quit a large number of people have told me that using your fingers is how they got started. They would rub there assholes with there fingers and it would give them an overwhelming sensation in a good way. If your going to prepare for anal sex with a shemale, I would recommend alot of practice using this method. Here it goes, get comfortable, lay on your back or whatever works for you. Make sure you have lube, some type of penetration toy like a dildo, your finger, or anything that can simulate a penis, big or small. Slowly caress your asshole with your pinky finger (as it is the smallest one) continue doing this until you can slide it in your ass, continue to do this using your next biggest finger. This will help stretch your asshole out slowly so as not to tear it and the more you do this the easier it will be come the day that you have that awesome experience with the person you are gonna have anal sex with.
Thanks for reading this post I will try to write another one ASAP. I welcome suggestions on topics. Send me a comment about what you want to know about and i will help as best as I can.